10、儿子带给我很多，教会我很多。最明显的变化是感到时间宝贵，现在晚上回家，不再打开任何电子设备，而是捧着一本英文书《Bugs in Writing》，对照陆谷孙《英汉大词典》猛啃。所获得的愉悦，超过被转发1000次带来的虚浮快感。刚刚，学到了ONLY的用法。ONLY在句中的位置不同，句子的意思也有别。Only we love you（张三李四都不正眼瞧你）。We only love you. （我只爱、不恨、不怨你）。We love only you. （其他人都靠边站）。因此，我造了一个句子：
BUGS IN WRITING is a book written by Dupre, an editor who made a MIT professor cry. Basically this book teaches readers how to write lucidly and precisely. It inherits the principles in The Element of Style, for example, avoid using passive sentences. It fights with redundancy and emphasizes precision of writing. This is a wonderful book suitable for every reader though it was intended to help students studying computer. You should have one if you want to improve your writing rapidly.
就在我根据这份书单在美国亚马逊买了一本Bugs in Writing，并花费几百元运回中国，准备开读的时候，我发现MIT的HIE课程页面上的这份书单不见了，内容更新成新学期的教学计划。通过在推特上求助，一位好心的推友 @rse43 帮我从archive.org上找到了这个网页的快照。我差不多都要喜极而泣了。
Twelve Classics for Every Aspiring Leader’s Bookshelf
Writing instruction
You cannot lead if you cannot communicate. A corollary is that you should hone your writing skills for the rest of your life.
The Elements of Style, William Strunk
Just after I distributed a draft of my first textbook, a student lobbed the dreaded question at me. “Have you read Strunk and White?” she said. I was betrayed because I had not deployed active verbs.
BUGS in Writing: A Guide to Debugging Your Prose, Lyn Dupre
Once Strunk and White is in your blood, read Dupre. She is a developmental editor; that is, she not only performs the lessor, comma-correcting function of a copy editor, she also comments on clarity and structure. After I wrote a few books, I thought I had learned what ordinary copy editors have to teach, so I asked my publisher to find an editor who could make me cry. The found Dupre. She did.
The Visual Display of Quantitative Information, Edward R. Tufte
Because we think with our eyes as well as our mouth, illustrations should properly stimulate your reader’s visual problem solving apparatus. In this domain, Tufte book reigns supreme. Look at the illustrations and discover what he has to say about them. Note, however, that you are likely to be disappointed by the writing style at the sentence and paragraph level.
Writing models
We mimic what we read, so before you write, read something you admire.
Battle Cry of Freedom: The Civil War Era, James M. McPherson
If I don’t feel like Shakespeare, I read McPherson, who does Strunk and White great honor in the way he uses verbs. The Battle Cry of Freedom is the best one-volume treatment of the American Civil War and takes you beyond high-school simplifications toward an understanding of the complex economic and political roots of a horrible war.
Molecular Biology of the Gene, James D. Watson
Before you write a textbook or documentation, study Watson’s first edition if you can find it (the Sixth is now available, but multiply authored, so I expect it is less well done). Do not study the biology, study the way Watson explains the biology.
How science works
The Trouble With Physics: The Rise of String Theory, The Fall of a Science, and What Comes Next, Lee Smolin
In the final chapters of The Trouble with Physics, Smolin explains that tenure decisions focus on maximizing short term reputation of the tenuring university. Accordingly, paradigm shifting geniuses often end up as false negatives because they do not necessarily develop the expected portfolio of papers in refereed journals while they are thinking their deep thoughts. My experiences in Electrical Engineering and Computer Science run amazingly parallel.
The Double Helix: A Personal Account of the Discovery of the Structure of DNA, James D. Watson
If Watson were to tire of molecular biology, he could become a great mystery writer, on the level of Arthur Conan Doyle. His account of the discovery of the structure of DNA exposes a level of competition, politics, deception, and sexism, and mystery that you would expect to find in a board room, not in a scientific community.
Management and leadership
Out of the Crisis, W. Edwards Deming
McArthur brought Deming to Japan after World War Two. He transformed Japan from a maker a junk into the industrial envy of the world. The Japanese Union of Scientists and Engineers have awarded The Deming prize annually for the past 60 years or so in his honor. In his book, he emphasizes that a good leader makes it clear to each person in his/her organization that that person is valued, that his/her work is valued, and his/her work makes a difference. Annual reviews are not for grading, they are for identifying what is done well and where improvement would have the most impact.
Deportment
A Message to Garcia, Elbert Hubbard
Lieutenant Rowan got the message to Garcia. You should too.
Lord Chesterfield’s Letters, Lord Chesterfield
Chesterfield wrote his letters in the first half of the eighteenth century, but much of his advice remains valuable. My grandfather gave me a copy in 1963, with particular parts underlined for my benefit.
Speaking
You cannot actually put these on a bookshelf, but they are useful nevertheless.
How to Speak, Patrick Henry Winston
Give Me Liberty or Give Me Death, Patrick Henry
If you are thinking of starting a revolution, read Henry’s speech and adapt it to your purpose.
去年，我在Amazon Kindle上订阅了一本很小众的杂志《Poets and Writer’s Magazine》，里面读到一篇关于作家如何养成良好写作习惯的文章，作者叫Ellen Sussman，我觉得她讲得有理，于是对她的作品也发生了兴趣。发现她在2008年曾经编写过一本《Dirty WOrds: A Literary Encyclopedia of Sex》。这其实是一本文摘，先把与性有关的单词从A到Z排列，每一个条目下摘引一篇独特的文章。
